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     This section was written for those who enjoy family stories and is not meant to be a treatise.  My primary intent is to put in facts and interesting events that Cellie and Al told me or that I documented and/or observed.  I have not rewritten family history by omitting events which family members might object to.  Detail is limited to my grandparents, aunts, uncles, first cousins and my immediate family.  As I write other sections, family stories from the past come back to mind or are told to me by other family members.  As they do, I will be adding them, probably until the day I die.

     For clarification in later sections, some name explanations are useful.  My father Al never used his middle name, going by Alfred L Stoessell.  He did not appreciate the name Leopold.  I only learned what the L stood for when I was in high school.  My brother Lloyd is also called Alfred L Stoessell.  My mother Marcella was usually called Cellie and my sister Marilyn had a daughter also named Marcella.  My son David shares the same first and middle names as my maternal first cousin David Michael Moore.  The name Ernest is carried by both my maternal grandfather (the central figure in the Prieto family) and my maternal first cousin, an attorney.  And the name Clay is carried by both my maternal uncle Clay and his grandson, a real estate realtor.  To distinguish the attorney Ernest and the realtor Clay from my grandfather and uncle, respectively, I will generally call them cousin Ernest and cousin Clay.


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Paternal Side - Stoessell and Kent Families

Maternal Side - Prieto and Eberl Families



Paternal Side - Stoessell and Kent Families

     My father Al had attended Tulane from 1924 through 1929.  During the early 1930s in the Depression, he shared a New Orleans apartment with Hodding Carter II (later Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist) and Charles (Slew) O'Neill, an attorney like his father who had been Chief Justice of the Louisiana Supreme Court.  I'm told the three of them made a lot of bathtub gin during Prohibition.  I never met Hodding Carter, and although we corresponded and talked on the phone, I only met Slew once.  Slew represented my mother, after Al died, in the 15 year Arnett lawsuit which involved about 3200 acres of Prieto land.  We met at the Covington Courthouse in February, 1981 when the case was settled.  After walking out of the courthouse together to the parking lot, I pulled out the family checkbook to pay him for years of legal work.  He was an old man by then but stood tall and steady, and he looked me in the eyes and said "Ron, I did this for Al."  We shook hands, and he got in his car and drove away.  I never saw him again.  I think Al inspired friendship throughout his life.

     Al was the son of a German immigrant, Alfred Leopold Stoessell Sr (1858-1934), from Stolp in East Prussia (now Poland) and Margaret Irwin Kent (Maggie, 1875-1939) of the Kent family in Kentwood in Tangipahoa Parish.  Al was the youngest child of the family and had three sisters: Hulda Kent (Hulda, 1897-1989), Persis Alma (Persis, 1899-1970), and Margaret Grace (Margaret, 1901-1948).  

     Maggie's grandfather Amos Kent (1811-1906) founded Kentwood in 1893(?).  Amos was a Yankee, originally from New Hampshire who came to Louisiana about 1828 at the age of 17, eventually settling in the present-day Kentwood area in 1855 in what was then St. Helena Parish.   Maggie's father was Amos' son, James Fluker Kent (1843-1886), a Civil War veteran.  The name Fluker came from Amos's wife Susan Fluker (1823-1906) of Clinton, Louisiana, whose father Colonel Robert Fluker had fought in the Battle of New Orleans.  James Fluker went by the name Fluker.  Fluker had been enrolled in 1860 in Pineville in the first class of what was to later become the Louisiana State University.  Oddly enough, William Tecumseh Sherman (the well-known Union General in the Civil War) served as the first Superintendent of the school.  When the war started in 1861, Fluker resigned from the college and joined the Confederate Army as 4th Sergeant of Company F (St Helena Rebels) 16th La Infantry.  In 1862 he became a 2nd Lt.   In 1863, at age 20, Fluker was captured by the Union Army at Missionary Ridge in 1863 and imprisoned at Johnson's Island in Lake Erie for the remainder of the war.  I have an autograph book that Fluker kept at Johnson's Island (Fluker's POW book) with numerous signatures and several poems.

     Maggie's mother was Delilah (Lilah) Flanagan Amacker (1849-1911), also of Tangipahoa Parish (at that time part of St. Helena Parish).  Lilah was the sister of Lt Col Obediah Pearson (OP) Amacker who was a POW at Johnson's Island with Fluker and who later married Fluker's sister Abigal Means Kent.  The Amacker and Kent families were tied closely together throughout the 19th century.  After the war, Fluker partnered with his father in the Amos Kent Brick and Lumber Yard.  Maggie was the 7th of 12 children.  Fluker died young in 1886, in his early 40s, leaving a widow and large family.  His son Richard Amacker Kent, a teenager at the time, gradually took over responsibility for the family.  Richard bought thousands of acres of land a few miles south of Kentwood in an area known as Hyde, renamed it Fluker after his father and founded the town (about 1890) where he established a lumber yard and brick yard and other businesses.

     Alfred Sr's father Henry Stoessell, son of William Stoessell and Berta Schroeder, had been the longest-serving mayor of Stolp.  His wife Hulda von Dorpowska/Puttkamer was (acording to family lore) related to Bismarck's wife (Johanna von Puttkamer) through a common grandmother.  Hulda parents were Leo von Dorpowska and ? von Kleist/Puttkamer.  Henry lost his position as mayor in 1890, the same year that Bismarck was sacked as Germany's Chancellor by Kaiser Wilhelm II.  His son Alfred Sr went to the University of Heidelberg before coming to America at age 22 in 1880.  As a child I was told he came to America to escape the compulsory Prussian military service and to escape punishment by authorities for his membership in an outlawed Heidelberg dueling club.  I have his masonic sword inscribed "IN HOC SIGMO VINCES", and a copy of his 1921 32nd degree Mason paper can be found in Family Papers.  He married Maggie Kent in 1895, becoming a naturalized citizen in 1899.  I know almost nothing of him other than family stories such as: he had facial scars (covered by his moustache) and lost the tip of his tongue while dueling (never stick your tongue out when sword fighting) at Heidelberg; could speak 7 languages; taught at the University of Texas in Austin (although there are no records supporting that); had a brother who was with him at Heidelberg and who went to South America (on his way to Australia) and was killed by a "big constrictor snake"; and met his future wife Margaret Kent in St. Lewis.  He ended up in Tangipahoa Parish in Louisiana working in the lumber industry.  Alfred Sr died of prostate cancer in 1934 before I was born.  My Dad said his father considered himself retired when he was growing up.  He had been working as a bookkeeper for the Natalbany Lumber Company.  Al remembered him tutoring Latin to the local high school students.  But much of his spare time was spent drinking beer with his German compatriots.  Life was good for them but not financially rewarding.  My mother recalled visiting them in Hammond during the Great Depression and being fed only tomatoes.

     Aunt Hulda married David Chester Boyd (DC, 1882-1961), a Texas Wildcatter who made and lost several fortunes.  DC and Hulda visited us for an extended stay in North Crowley in the 1950s.  I remember him as an old man, nearly blind, sitting in our back yard, telling me of those "wild" early days of drilling for oil.  They had 4 boys: David Cannon (David, 1920-2005), Alfred Kent (Kent, 1925-2011), Lloyd Stoessell (Lloyd, 1927-2015), and Joseph Lyon (Joe, b. 1933).  David was initially married to Georgia M. White (born 1921) and had 3 children: David Randolph (Randy), Patricia (Patsy), and Eric.  David was also married later to Anna Carolina Waldron and to Betty Jo Hiser.  Kent was married to Barbara Jean Benchley (Jean, born 1932) and had 2 children: Melissa and Stephen, along with Jean's two daughters from a previous marriage: Deborah and Candice Laird.  Lloyd was married to Darlene Alice Smith (Darlene, 1930-2015) and they had one child: Jo Ellen (Jody).  And Joe married Marilyn ? (19__-2011) and they had 5 children: Kirby, Leslie, Allison, Dana, and Christopher.

     DC and Hulda's family lived mostly in Texas and my limited contact with them has left me with few details.  I often wondered how my Aunt Hulda in Hammond, Louisiana got hooked up with a Texas Wildcatter.  Randy Boyd told me he remembered Hulda as a true family matriarch.  Jean Boyd said Hulda taught home economics in the New Orleans area and had a degree from Northwestern State College in Natchitoches.  Jean also said DC had attended Sam Houston State College in Huntsville and studied law.  Recently.  I contacted Joe Boyd who told me DC both practiced law and taught in Louisiana where he met Hulda.  DC got into the oil business through royalities he obtained doing legal work.  I worked at Exxon Production Research Center in Houston in the late 70s and one of the old-timers remembered DC from the early days.

     Aunt Persis married Thomas Edward Mulcay (1899-1939) a US Navy man.  Their only child Margaret Catherine (1922(?)-2016) married CDR Hugh Benton Burris (1918-2010), a handsome Naval Air Corps officer whose good looks were passed on to their three children: Marsha Anne, Hugh Benton (Bubba), and Sue Ellen.  When the kids were growing up, they lived in Bermuda where Hugh was stationed.  After Hugh retired from the military, he worked at the Texcas A&M Uiversity campus in Kingsville, Texas.  Eventually they moved to Friendswood, Texas, when Hugh retired from the university.  Marsha became an attorney in New Orleans and later helped me through a divorce and to settle my mother's estate.  As an LSU undergraduate, I remember Marsha's portrait, a wedding present painted by Robert Rucker, hanging in the main stairwell in the LSU Library.  She was (and is) a beautiful woman with a taste for life (four marriages, last married name is Martin) and later moved back to Friendswood to help care for Margaret Catherine.  Bubba is a Texas physician with a passion for tennis, worked in Galveston and practices in Webster near Friendswood, Texas.  Sue Ellen Burris Chapman presently lives in El Lago, Texas.

     Aunt Margaret married Thomas (Tom) Reed Evans (1903-1960).  They met at the Merry Widow Ball at the Oaks Hotel in Hammond.  Margaret died young, of a heart attack, and Tom passed 12 years later.  In the 1950s, we often visited Tom in New Orleans, and he gave my brother Lloyd a 22 rifle.  Their only child Margaret Ann (b. 1931) married Robert (Bob) M Rucker, (1932-2001) the well-known Louisiana landscape painter.  Bob and Margaret Ann later lived in Mandeville and Covington and had 3 girls: Kathryn Lynn, Janet Greer, and Yvonne Marie.  Bob was from a New Orleans family of Mississippi River boat pilots and turned to art because he had been partially crippled by polio at age 17.  In the late 1960s, Bob came yearly to Crowley for Al's New Year duck hunt (sponsored by the Acadia Savings and Loan) at Bill Cleveland's Hunting Camp near Pecan Island.  There were always good times on those hunts.

     When Al was born, the girls were so happy to have a brother that they picked him up and ran up and down the street, yelling the news.  He grew up in Hammond, Louisiana, and went to Tulane (1924-1929) in engineering but never finished.  I have his 1928 Tulane Jambalaya yearbook and in figure captions he is listed both as a senior and a junior.  Cellie said he lacked a course in Spanish to finish his engineering degree.  I never heard him talk about engineering so I doubt it was a profession he wanted to pursue.  Al was a natural athlete, a very likable guy who had been a star football player in Hammond High School and at Tulane and the game was his life-long passion.  He was a Delta Kappa Epsilon (DKE) at Tulane and he supported himself by managing the DKE House and working in the summers on the new Tulane football stadium being built.

     Al met my mother Cellie on a double date in which their dates got drunk and incapacitated, leaving the two of them quality time to know each other.  Shortly prior to this event, Dad had been very serious about another girl and, unknown to him, she was dating someone else on the side.  She accidently crossed her letters and he received one intended for her other beau (lol), ending that relationship.  Al and Cellie married in 1935 and took passage on a United Fruit Boat to Puerto Barrios in Guatemala.  This was a 7 day honeymoon in Central America which Cellie said Al won in a poker game the night before the wedding.  At the dock, his friends persuaded him to down a lot of whiskey, causing him to have a kidney stone attack the next day.  On the boat Al and Cellie won the bridge tournament.  According to Cellie, she just sat there with the dummy hands while Al doubled and redoubled the bids.  He was always lucky in cards, a good card player.  Afterwards, they lived for several years in Jackson, Mississippi, where Al repossessed cars for General Motors.  Cellie loved living in Jackson but repossessing cars must have been a depressing job.  During the war, they lived in New Orleans where he became the Director of the Sugar Rationing Program for the Office of Price Administration (OPA).  My father (as I do) suffered all his life from kidney stones and had been medically deferred from the military during World War II.   Interestingly, during the Vietnam War era, I tried to get a medical release from the US Army when I had my first kidney stone attack at Fort Benning.  Times had changed and it didn't work!


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Maternal Side - Prieto and Koop Families


     After graduation from LSU in 1930, my mother Cellie spent several years in the early 1930s as a high school teacher of Spanish and typing, and she was also the girls' basketball coach at Hammond High School.  She humorously recounted this story to me of her first game as coach.  The game was in Mississippi.  The Mississippi girls were big and mean and told her team they would beat them up if they scored any points.  They didn't and the final score was like 50 to zero (lol).  In Hammond, Cellie roomed in the home of family friend Jimmy Morrison who later became a US Congressman.  She enjoyed teaching, as I did years later.  Cellie came from a wealthy family background but she did not take herself seriously and was unpretentious in her dealings with others.  She continually inspired me to do my best and to keep trying.

     Cellie was from Mandeville, Louisiana which sits across Lake Pontchartrain from New Orleans.  She was the youngest child of John Ernest Prieto (Ernest, Popsy, 1877-1944) and Maria Hedwig Koop (May, Mumsy, 1880-1955).  Cellie had three older siblings: Preston Thomas (Preston, 1905-1972), John Clay Francis (Clay, 1907-1987), and Marion May (Marion, 1908-1989).  My Grandfather Popsy went by his middle name Ernest.  He was an accumulator of land and businesses to the extent that the next two family generations could live off the wealth that he created.

     Cellie's mother May (Mumsy) was from New Orleans.   Her mother Sophie Ebel (1847-1924) was from Mutzenhausen in Alsace Lorraine (born in Strasbourg, France) and her father Frank Koop (1838-1932) was from Lubeck and Berlin (born in Leipsig, Germany).  They married in 1869 in New Orleans.  Frank had come to America to escape military service in Germany, only to be caught up in the Civil War.  He was a "rascally Yankee," because his Civil War discharge paper was as a seaman from the US Navy in 1863.  He must have been wounded since the discharge was from a Norfolk naval hospital.

     Cellie's father Ernest (Popsy) was the grandson of Vincente Prieto Sr, (1822-1891) a Spanish Basque sea captain.  Captain Prieto eloped with Senorita Isabella Josephine Costa (1829-1914), sailing to Spain from the island of Ibiza in the Mediterranean Sea.  She was the daughter of Contesta and Lucas Costa and was disinherited for her elopement.  They sailed into Lake Pontchartrain, landing in Mandeville about 1851(?).  The town had been founded by Barnard de Marigny in 1834 and was only incorporated in 1840.  They arrived with an infant son Vincent Prieto Jr, born in Spain, who would become Ernest's father.  Josephine was called Madame Vincent by the town folks.  Captain Prieto installed her in a house on the Lakefront, at the east corner of Marigny Ave, complete with a widow's walk on the roof so she could watch for the return of his ship.  He then sailed off on a trading mission, returning years later, and repeated this general scenario again (or so I was told by my mother).  That widow's walk must have been well worn.  They had 5 children: Vincent, 1850-1882(?); Margaret (Maggie), 1861-1922; Lucas, 1863-1937; Josephine, 1864-1883; and Magdelena (Lena, married name Coney?) 1866-1934.  Josephine (Pepita) died on her wedding day and was buried in her wedding dress.  There is some confusion in the family dates but these are consistent with the data in the 1870 US Census.  Madame Vincent lived in her Lakeshore House until it burned (after Cellie's birth since she recalled it) and then in a small cottage that Popsy built for her just behind the original location.  Her eyesight must have gradually deteriorated, because Cellie remembered her letting in a stray cat one evening only to discover the cat was actually a possum the next morning.

     The Prieto family has had the sea in their blood down to Ernest who maintained a fleet of schooners on Lake Pontchartrain for coastal trade purposes.  Ernest's father Vincent Prieto Jr was also a sea captain.   Vincent Prieto Jr and Pauline Sharp (1857-1882), daughter of Margaret O'Connor and Aaron (Plum) Sharp, married in 1872 and both died young.  Pauline died in childbirth when Ernest was a young child.  Family stories say Vincent Prieto Jr went to New Orleans on a trip, possibly caught yellow fever, and passed without returning to Mandeville.  We do not even know the location of his grave.  (An alternative story from Cellie was that he died of a leg injury; however, there is no grave in the Mandeville Cemetary where Pauline is buried.)  Ernest and his older brother Vincent Antonio (Tony) were raised by his maternal grandfather Pum Sharp.  However, Ernest ran away several times and for awhile lived in New Orleans with Aunt Duffie (sister of Pauline).  He wasn't content there either and ran away again, spending his youth riding trains across the country and doing odd jobs to support himself.  During this time, he shipped out on a cattle boat to Europe but was so seasick, he never went ashore.  Eventually Ernest came back to New Orleans, taking a job as a waiter at the Old Cosmopolitian Hotel, working alongside his young friend Arnaud who later founded Arnaud's restaurant.  He started his businesses in Mandeville by pooling his money with lifelong friend Lewis Morgan (Cellie's Godfather and later US Congressman) to purchase a building from James Band, starting the family mercantile store in Mandeville.  Ernest met his future wife May at a Masonic Ball in New Orleans and they married a year later in 1902(?).

     Mandeville was a small, picturesque, rural town for much of the 20th century.  The town was a vacation resort for people from New Orleans on the south side of Lake Pontchartrain.  In the early days, the public would take steamboats for the 24 mile trip back and forth across the lake, disembarking on wharves built out from the lakefront.  A railroad started from the lakefront and they could ride north to the Covington area and the resort town of Abita Springs.  Mandeville reminded me of Sausalito in the 1970s, across the Golden Gate Bridge from San Francisco.  The lakefront and the old homes provided the same atmosphere as the waterfront of San Francisco Bay.  This was a really cool town, and only now in the 21st century is it slowly losing its charm with the urbanization of the North Shore.

     The family home of Ernest was on the west side of Girod (then called Gerard) St in the second block off the Lakeshore.  Within the center of the block, he kept a small pasture to hold calves that needed care and two barns: one for horses and one, behind the post office on Jefferson Street, that contained chickens, etc.  I remember the "vat", a deep concrete pit by the horse barn used for curing cattle hides.  Horses, used by the cowboys with the family's free-range cattle, were sometimes brought in to Mandeville for the night.  Mack Richardson, the cattle foreman, lived next door, and they were transported in the back of an old deuce and a half ton truck.  The family kids and their friends could sometimes ride them on the lakefront.  And Ernest would use them for foxhunts that started from his home at daybreak.  I still have one of Popsy's (Ernest's) short barrel saddle rifles, a 32-20 Marlin, model 1894, that he used on those fox hunts.

     The two-story family home with its cistern and water well fronted Gerard Street, and adjacent to it was the brick general store (Ernest Prieto and Sons) with a bar in the cellar.  During Prohibition, the family still had a lot of unsold liquor in that cellar bar and could legally drink it, just not sell it.  The alcohol consumption with friends there drove the Federal Liquor Agents nuts.  The store formed the SW Gerard Street corner with Jefferson Street, and next to it on Jefferson Street was a post office that Ernest built for the town.  Mack's house was adjacent to the Post Office.  Along Jefferson and Gerard Streets were homes built by the family for rental income, for their workers, and for family members, e.g., Preston's home on Gerard Street.  And within the surrounding blocks were more rental homes built by Ernest.   He was an accumulator, not a seller of property.

     The family slaughter house was located outside Mandeville, on land off highway 1088 across from the main barn which we called the "Old Place".  I've heard there was a smaller slaughter house located north of Lacombe but it was gone by the mid 1950s.  The cattle were free-range bush cattle.  There was a 10 mile stretch of connected parcels of family land that ran from the "Old Place", staying north of present day Fontainebleau State Park to just west of Fish Hatchery Road, north of Lacombe.  Ernest owned more than 6,000 acres of land outside of Mandeville, but these were generally woodlands, not pasture, in different and often disconnected and unfenced parcels.  There just wasn't enough forage for thousands of head of cattle so they roamed freely along with the cattle of other cattle owners.  The big roundup occurred in the spring.  Cowboys branded the calves for the different cattle owners with ownership based on the brand of each calf's mother.  My brother Lloyd participated in cattle roundups in the 1950s taking place at the "Old Place" and on the old Stagecoach Road to Lacombe near the "big Oaks" at the corner of Rapatel and Labarre Streets.  During the year the cattle were selectively caught to be taken to auction or slaughtered for meat for the store.  These were mixtures of Texas Longhorn and Brahmin, tough and mean cattle that could take the Louisiana heat and insects.  It was fun to watch them chase the auctioneers around the pit when being sold.  When I met them on foot or on horseback in the woods, I moved aside to let them by.  And they were impressive, running in groups in nearshore waters of Lake Pontchartrain with big V shaped water sprays following them thundering across the shallow flats.

     Uncle Clay told me of the time Ernest learned his cattle were going to be rustled by outlaws in Lacombe.  Outlaws were a general name applied to those who hunted illegally as well as stole property, and Lacombe was known for its outlaws.  Ernest and Clay and the men working for the Prieto family got their rifles and went in trucks out to the land.  Clay said he was pissing in his pants when they climbed out to confront them.  The two groups of men stared at each other.  Then the outlaws stood down, saying "Mr. Prieto, we'll leave your cattle alone."  The lesson of that story is you don't really own something if you are not willing to fight for it.

     Ernest had other businesses, including a hotel and a funeral home.  My mother used to play in the coffins, causing her mother psychological distress, resulting in Ernest getting out of that particular business.  The family's lumber mill and boatyards were located further east along Bayou Castine (means flea in Choctaw).  The family schooners were used for trade with New Orleans but there were many tales of taking a schooner out on the lake for an afternoon of partying, one tale of Clay being tied to the mast.  Cellie often talked of Captain Reed (Jimmy Reed), an African American seaman, who skippered the Josephine, the prize schooner of the family, and he was a valued friend of the family.  The picture is a Don Scafidi painting of his representation of the Josephine under full sail, done for the 1997 Madisonville Boat Festival.

     By the end of the 1920s(?), use of the schooners was no longer economical for trade with New Orleans.  The Josephine was sold.  The remaining boats had been built of cypress and the family sunk them in the Tchefuncta River, above Madisonville, so they would not rot.  As a child, I remember seeing the hulls just below the water surface, but I do not remember the location.  I used to dream of raising one and setting it sailing again on the lake, i.e., being Captain Ron.  

     Grandfather Ernest was a strong supporter of the Longs.  Huey was assassinated in 1935 and Ernest subsequently lost property through political retaliation by eminent domain taking in what is now Fontainebleau State Park, established in 1939.  Ernest's best friend was Lewis Lovering Morgan who headed the 1944 Long Ticket for governor.  Morgan's defeat contributed to Ernest's death by heart attack in 1944.  Morgan was ridiculed as that "old man" and Ernest took it personally.  As young men, they were business partners in the Mandeville mercantile store which Ernest managed and the proceeds paid for Morgan's Tulane Law School education.  In return Lewis Morgan provided free legal work for Ernest for the rest of his life.  This arrangement wasn't a great deal for the Prieto family because the legal work was sloppy and led later to many lawsuits over land titles.  One of these was the horrific Arnett lawsuit which began in 1968, involving thousands of acres of Prieto land, that lasted more than 10 years.  But Lewis was a good family friend, and he was Cellie's Godfather.  He died in 1950, 6 years after Ernest.

     Aunt Marion graduated from high school in 1924, two years ahead of Cellie and attended Southwest Louisiana College in Lafayette, graduating in 1928.  Cellie joined her there in 1926 and then transferred in 1928 to Louisiana State University in Baton Rouge at the Old State Capital Campus.  She was a Delta Zeta at LSU.  She and Marion had a great time in college and worked with the college newspapers.  Marion was a gifted writer.  After Cellie graduated with a BA in 1930, she and Marion did the Grand Tour together in Europe, the summer of the following year.  In 1933, they went together to the Chicago World's Fair.  Meanwhile, Cellie taught in Hammond until she married Al in 1935.  But she and Marion first did one more trip, spending the summer in Mexico in 1934, where they attended the National University of Mexico.  Cellie kept copious notes of those years after graduation and before being married.  She was a party girl which I never realized when growing up.  At LSU she wanted to major in Geology which is what I later did, certainly influenced by her love of the subject.  At that time, women were only allowed to take the freshman geology courses which she took at LSU.  Education was Southern Society's preferred career for women in the first half of the 20th century, and she later received a teaching certificate.

     While the girls went off to college, Uncles Preston and Clay stayed home to help their father Ernest with his various businesses.  Ernest compensated them somewhat by giving them land and building their homes.  Years later I came to understand the resentment they felt because they had been forced to work at an early age for the family while the girls had a care-free existence and then showed up for their share of the inheritance in 1955 on the death of my grandmother Momsy (May).  And years later I felt similar emotions when I came back to Louisiana after graduate school to help Cellie and look after the family interests because Marilyn and Lloyd were generally absent after the late 1960s.  But Momsy had lived with us in New Orleans and Crowley in winter for the last 11 years of her life and she depended upon Cellie.  My mother felt like she was doing her share for the family.  The resentment was an open wound in the late 1950s with the issues of the family cattle, the lumber mill, and the family land partitions.  I always liked Uncle Preston and eventually became good friends with Uncle Clay.

     In the late 1950s, on receiving a tip, my mother went to a cattle sale and discovered family cattle being sold.  She confronted Uncle Preston.  Both had tears in their eyes, and there were never again problems between our two families.  In February of 1957, Cellie and Marion received a letter from C. E. Corry, the bookkeeper at the family lumber mill, saying proceeds from lumber sales were not being reported to the family.  I still have that letter, and those were volatile times.  One afternoon Clay came bursting into the old family home to confront my mother.  She retreated to her Mom's bedroom, closed and locked the door, reached under a seat cushion and picked up a revolver, a 5 shooter, as I recall from playing with it as a child.  Uncle Clay was banging on the bedroom door.  She yelled out for him to leave or she would use the gun to protect herself.  Clay left.  Clay was a rough, tough guy who was Mayor of Mandeville at the time but Cellie was not to be pushed around.  But by the early 1960s, the family interests were split up, eliminating problems except those related to real estate partitions.  The timber on the family lands was sold.  The general store and family house went to Uncle Preston.  The lumber mill was dismantled with the equipment sold to the Kent family (Stoessell relatives) in Fluker, and the remaining family cattle were purchased by Uncle Clay.  For a few years Clay still played games with Cellie's interest.  He surreptitously dismantled the "Old Place" barn which was now on her property and rebuilt it as part of a new barn further east on highway 1088 on his property.  He moved a building on her property within the lumber mill square, without her permission, to his property on the bayou to use in his boatyard.  As I look back, I understand Clay's feelings.  After his father Ernest died in 1944, Clay had supervised building more rental houses for the family, ran the family lumber mill and cut and sold timber for the family, and (with Preston) looked after the family cattle.  He had built both the "Old Place" barn and also the building on the lumber mill square.  Cellie was not going to keep livestock and the barn would have rotted away from disuse.  Nevertheless, he should have paid Cellie for the building on the lumber mill square, and it was a life-long source of irritation with her.

     During this time, my father Al was generally in Crowley running the car dealership, then managing the Crowley Chamber of Commerce and later running the Acadia Savings & Loan.  Al enjoyed hanging with Preston but he did not enjoy the family discord in Mandeville.  Marilyn and I were too young to be of much help for my mother in dealing with Clay, and her support came from my older brother Lloyd.  In the mid-1960s, Lloyd went to graduate school in solid state physics at Cornell and married his first wife, Carolyn Bergen, a Cornell graduate student in Fine Arts from Coos Bay, Oregon. After receiving a MS Degree, he went into the US Air Force and never came back to Louisiana permanently.  Marilyn left permanently in the late 1960s, after graduate school at LSU, receiving her MA Degrees in German and Spanish and marrying Karl Seifert, a German living in Wiesloch, West Germany.  But she came back for yearly visits and helped with some of the family real estate problems.  And after 2010 when I left Mandeville permanently, Marilyn took over the major share of handling problems in the family properties.  She is not a woman who shies away from discord.

     In late 1971, my uncle Clay and I went out with the Air Force to a crash site near our land.   A fighter jet had crashed and the rescue operation had damaged the property in recovering the plane.  We were there to make sure that the family was repaid for the damage and I was representing Cellie's interest.   Clay was a larger than life figure.  He was a big man, bowlegged and walked with a pronounced roll which could have been from years spent on horseback and/or on the decks of schooners or perhaps from childhood rickets(?).  He had been mayor of Mandeville for twenty years.  I listened while he told the military personnel stories of the history of the property (like the one already recounted of cattle rustling) and made friends with them.   Later that afternoon, he and I talked about the family.  Clay's daughter Joan married Robert Doolittle (Bob) earlier that year in Europe, and Marilyn had managed the wedding and acted as tour guide for Clay and his wife Elizabeth at the wedding.  We had no resentment towards each other and from then on we were friends.  Clay and his wife Mary Elizabeth Molloy (Elizabeth, 1913-1972) had three children: John Ernest (Ernest, 1935-2014), Mary Elizabeth (Mary, 1939-2016) and Joan Clay (Joan, b. 1945).  Cousin Ernest, a basketball star in high school and college, was an attorney and also worked as a real estate agent as did Mary.  Both Mary and Joan ran military Service Clubs in Europe in the 60s and early 70s where they met their future husbands.  Ernest had three children with his wife Marietta Hansbrough: Marie Elise (Malise, attorney and Clerk of Court for St. Tammany Parish), Clay Carl (Clay, real estate agent), and Ernest (Ernie).  Mary had two children with her husband Larry Golden: Lauren Browning (Lauren, runs family businesses) and Molloy Caldwell (Molloy, artist); and Joan had two children with her husband Bob Doolittle: Robert T (Bob, forester) and Benjamin V (Ben, restaurant chef).

     Uncle Preston was the most likable guy I ever met, other than his son Preston Thomas Prieto Jr (Tommy, 1938-2010).  He ran the Ernest Prieto and Sons General Store and used to give us candy and play practical jokes on us.  (He once sent me to one of his competitors to get some additional stock, telling me that they were his storehouse.)  I still have some of the family tokens redeemable at the store which were used to pay the family workers.  Preston called me Boy, the same as he called Troy Jackson Jr, his own son-in-law.  Preston would jokingly refer to Troy as "that Boy who married my daughter and I can't remember his name."  Troy was actually a beloved school principal in Covington who was loved by the family.  My recollections of Preston are sitting on his back porch with my Dad and the two of them drinking whiskey, retelling old stories.  Al and Preston were great friends.  I could have had my first shot of whiskey with them on that back porch.  Although in retrospect, that probably wasn't true because Stoessells started young.

     Governor Huey Long paved Gerard Street as a wedding present to Preston and his wife Dorothy Vernon Burns, (Dolly, 1905-1982).  It was the first paved street in Mandeville.  Huey was visiting Ernest and asked Dolly what he could give as a wedding present for them.   She replied that the street was awfully dusty.  The next Monday, state workers showed up to pave the street.  They had two children: Tommy and Jerry Dean (Jerry, 1932-2003).  Jerry, like her husband Troy was a school teacher and they had two children: James Kent (Kent, jack of all trades) and Janet Ruth (Janet, secretary in the school system).  Tommy never really had a career.  I remember he ran the Mandeville Ice House and the old Lakefront Theater in the 1960s and later looked after his family properties.  He had two children: Carrie Deane (Carrie, runs family businesses) and Don Scot (Don, builder, jack of all trades) with his wife Sarah Lewis but the marriage didn't last.  In later years, Tommy became somewhat of a recluse, living in a house he built in the woods south of Abita Springs and occasionally traveling to Australia, a country he identified with.  Tommy always had a twinkle in his eye and a good word for everyone.  After Uncle Preston's death, his extended family would gather at his old house on Gerard Street on Wednesday evenings to eat supper, drink whiskey, and share gossip and family tales.  I attended a few of those meetings, and I treasure those memories.

     Aunt Marion was the most articulate and opinionated member of the family.  She and her husband James P Moore (Jimmy, 1909-1978) lived in Crowley when Jimmy and Al were business partners.  Jimmy was a very handsome likeable guy.  Cellie said that he and his brother Tommy had played in the Schilling's Society Serenaders, a jazz band in New Orleans.  Jimmy skippered a PT boat during World War II, and had graduated from Tulane Law School.  I don't think he ever practiced law.  His family had run the New Orleans Mint in the latter part of the 19th century and had donated the land for the Our Lady of the Lake Catholic Church and Catholic School in Mandeville adjacent to their family home.  After the Crowley Studebaker Dealership failed, Jimmy did legal abstracting for a few years in Crowley.  A friend told me that he was abstracting with Jimmy in the Crowley Courthouse when Jimmy stood up and announced "Life is too short to make a living this way." and walked out.  He never went back to work.  They settled back on their inheritances from the Moore and Prieto families, living in Mandeville, in a beautiful 19th century Lakeshore Dr home in the 1700 block.  Marion was known for her sharp tongue and clever replies.  She delighted in taunting me that someday I would be just like her, an assertion I vigorously disputed and deny (lol) to this day.  Jimmy died of a heart attack in a Beirut Hotel on a vacation in Lebanon.  Years later, I asked his son David why they buried Marion separately in the Prieto Family Tomb, away from Jimmy.  He replied that his father deserved a break.

     Jimmy and Marion had two children: Margery M. (Marge, b. 1940) and David Michael (David, b. 1944?).   Marge was the Crowley International Rice Festival Queen in 1956.  Like Tommy, David never had a career.  He was a Ph.D. candidate in English at Tulane but did not finish his dissertation.  David always had a love of antique guns and fast cars.  He briefly ran a black powder gun shop in Mandeville and then retired to Covington, living on his inheritance while looking after his family's properties.  David married twice but had no children.  Marge was a very beautiful, dynamic woman who ran the Head Start Program in Covington and now has an art shop in Taos, New Mexico.  Her first husband Robert (Bob) Hanisee from Crowley was a great guy who taught English at the University of New Orleans and at Southeastern Louisiana University in Hammond, then served in an early administration of Governor Edwin Edwards in Baton Rouge, before moving his family to New Mexico in the 1980s.  Bob was a triathlon athlete who died tragically in New Mexico, struck by a drunk driver, as he trained by running along a highway shoulder one snowy morning in 1987.  They had two children, a daughter Errin and a son Miles who currently serves as a judge on the New Mexico Court of Appeals.

     This last story about the Prietos concerns the Lemieux Brothers.  They were partners with Ernest in the first 20 years of the 20th century in numerous land dealings, including buying the Jackson Lane Subdivision north of Mandeville.  This was a bankrupt subdivision with about 5,000 small lots, laid out on paper with only a few hundred lots subsequently sold to spectators and absentee land owners in New Orleans.  The abandoned titles to those lot sellouts, along with those in other subdivisions (Birg Boulevard, Helenbirg Lots and Farms, and Glendale Heights Farms), obtained through the Arnett Tax Sale were the subject of many family lawsuits in the last half of the 20th century.  But I have digressed. Eventually Ernest bought out the Lemieux Brother's interest in their joint properties.  The Lemieuxs lived on the Mandeville Lakefront in a cottage that later survived the tidal surge of Hurricane Katrina in 2005.  The external symmetry of the cottage makes it (in my opinion), the most beautiful home on Lakeshore Drive.  Mrs. Lemieux died in this home.  My mother said she was found standing up, leaning against the fireplace mantle with her dog lying at her feet.  Rigor Mortis had set in and held her in a standing position.  I can never look at that cottage without having the vision of an elderly woman standing inside, leaning against the mantle of the fireplace, her dog at her feet.

     The rest of my narrative deals with my life and it will cover my own siblings, but for the sake of my sanity, let me dispense some with these two overachievers.  However, I will spare you their high school achievements.  At LSU, Lloyd triple majored in chemisty, physics, and math and graduated with a 3.84, receiving an active commission in the Air Force from being in ROTC.  He then went to graduate school at Cornell, receiving a MS in Physics.  His career path led from the Sandia National Labratories in Albuquerque to being one of the project managers at the Pentagon in Washington in developing the strategic missle defense system.  His second wife Pamela (Pam) Justine Becker was a fashion design professor and Dean at Marymount University and they live in Falls Church, VA.  Marilyn was Mortar Board Outstanding Freshman Woman and Outstanding Junior Woman at LSU, AWS President and she double majored in Spanish and German.  She received a MA in both subjects at LSU before disappearing into the European landscape to help her German husband Karl Seifert run a hardware and gift shop in Wiesloch, Germany.  Below is a picture of the three of us, with our spouses, taken around 2000 in Mandeville. We're sitting under my raised Lakeshore house (1623 Lakeshore) which we called the Tree House.  (This house was built as a rental house by my grandfather Ernest in the 1930s.)  And yes - my second wife Londi (Yolanda Harrington Moore, b. 1958) is sitting on Karl's lap (have to keep my eye on the Germans - lol).  We're drinking the good stuff: Heitz Martha's Vineyard cabarnet.  Lake Pontchartrain and Uncle Clay's Breakwater are in the background.


(L to R) Lloyd, Pam, Marilyn, Karl, Londi, and Ron, circa 2000


     In closing this section, please note that some family papers are available as pdf files, reached from the link marked Family Papers in the menu at the top of the page.

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