EPR in Houston, 1977-1978 |
Coastal Studies at LSU, 1978-1982 |

We rented a beautiful condo in an apartment complex off Westheimer Drive, not too far from the Galleria which pleased Louise immensely. She settled in to taking care of David and being a full-time mother. The pictures shows David at 16 & 1/2 months at the apartment complex. Like all Stoessells, he enjoys a glass of good cabarnet in the evenings. (We had to store the good stuff high, out of his reach.) My most memorable experience at the condo was starting a fire in the fireplace with the vent closed. Hmm - What gives! - Why is black smoke filling the room and not going up the chimney (lol)? I repainted the entire wall and ceiling around the fireplace. My sadest experience in Houston was boxing David in an ear as punishment, and then taking him to an ear doctor to make sure there was no permanent hearing damage. Obviously, my parenting skills broke down in that incident.
Wally heard this from Louise and reconsidered, getting his lawyer to draw up legal documents. I don't think he trusted his son-in-law (lol). Cellie just wrote me a check for her $10,000 portion. I truthfully do not remember if we paid interest or paid the loans back when we later sold the house, so perhaps Wally was right about me!
Louise entered private practice in Baton Rouge, doing testing of children with The Psychology Group. David was enrolled at Trinity Episcopal Day School in preschool. On weekends we went to Mandeville and stayed at Cellie's lakeshore cottage (later destroyed by Hurricanne Katrina in 2005), built in the 50s by Uncle Clay. We celebrated being back in Louisiana by taking a family trip to Grand Caymans, retracing our steps in the earlier trip which Louise and I took nearly a decade earlier. (Only this time I did not lose the rental car keys!) Louise became pregnant again but it sadly ended in a miscarriage a few days after seeing the baby on a sonogram. She recently remindeded me that there was one other miscarriage, in 1975 at the end of our summer in Kenya. It would have been wonderful if we had had a second child.
Marilyn was there talking with the nurses and the doctors, pushing them to find out what was wrong. Cellie's pain was becoming unbearable and the doctors were wheeling her back for exploratory surgery. Then Marilyn noticed Cellie's catheter was in the off position. It had been turned off and she could not relieve herself, creating the emergency. That was a lesson for me. Always have somebody with you in a hospital to check on everything. Years later, Jennifer Miller, a graduate student of mine, was taking environmental waste water samples in Mandeville one morning at the local treatment plant. She complained about a headache before driving home to New Orleans across the Causeway. Two days later, my department head called to tell me my student had been on life support in the hospital for two days and had just died. Jen had become partially paralyzed in her apartment and called an ambulance. She was left in the emergency waiting room for more than an hour before suffering a brain aneurysm because no one was there pushing the nurses and doctors to do something. They apparently thought because of her young age and otherwise healthy condition that she was just having a reaction to recreational drugs. In my mind, Jen was the daughter we never had. Her death was a terrible, preventable tragedy.
Once we had a house in Baton Rouge, I bought a kit for one of those enormous redwood California hot tubs that was 4 feet deep and more than 6 feet across. We had hot tub parties with some of the faculty from the Geology Department and Coastal Studies and visiting friends, e.g., George Flowers and Steve Nelson who had joined the Tulane Faculty and Beth and Jon Price who were living in South Texas where Jon was working for Union Carbide(?) in uranium exploration. There were sacks of oysters to be shucked and downed with beer around the hot tub. At one of parties, during a cold winter day, George Hart, South African micropaleontologist, jumped in naked in the hot tub when the rest of us were in the house. George always liked to shock people, and David locked the doors so he couldn't get back in. I chuckle remembering naked George pounding on the windows to get in out of the cold. (It was hard to understand how George's British wife Claire put up with him but they were a "cool" couple.) That first year, a senior faculty member at LSU had told me "Ron, I think you are still pretending to be a graduate student on campus, but you can't do it forever." Sadly, he was right.
A few blocks from us lived Esther and Ron Wilcox (an LSU Professor in the Institute for Environmental Studies) with their brilliant daughters (Marla, Rena, and Sara). The girls were pretty and Sara became David's babysitter. Marla ended up in Silicon Valley working with computers. Sara eventually became an MD and Rena worked for NASA. Esther (maiden name Schaffer) had been raised in a missionary family in East Africa and was familiar with my Ph.D. field area along the Kenya-Tanzania border. Her brother stayed in East Africa as a doctor working with "Doctors Without Borders." And her mother wrote a book about their life in Africa. Esther was a sensitive, quiet, calm woman with insightful insights into people. I enjoyed her presence and we shared stories of East Africa and our lives. She had a sweet soul and over the next ten years we became soulmates; although, I lost track of her for 30 years and only recently reconnected on FaceBook. She was living in Fredericksburg, Texas. Esther had divorced Ron and she was remarried to Paul Nixon, an older longtime friend who also grew up in the same missionary family community in Kenya. I think he got himself a good woman.
I continued my thermodynamic research in low-temperature geochemistry, working with Clyde Moore (carbonate petrologist) and Ray Ferrell (clay mineralogist) in the Geology Department. I reconnected with Robert Nauman, my former LSU physical chemistry professor and our discussions added to my understanding of thermodynamics. Initially, my research was directed towards extending my work on the thermodynamic solid solution modeling of illites, incorporating local electrostatic balance and the effect of site interactions over mixing on the lattice sites. These new illite models were published in Geochimica et Cosmochimica Acta and I gave a talk on them at the 93rd GSA Annual Meeting in Atlanta in 1980. I then started working on a chlorite regular solution model and gave a talk on this model at a GSA Penrose Confrence at Kona, Hawaii in 1982. Louise and David came with me and we explored the beaches and volcanoes on the "Big Island". Seeing an oceanic "Hot Spot" in action really brought home to me the concept of plate tectonics.

Jim Coleman tried to include me in his coastal research. Once we went by helicopter down to the mouth of the Mississippi River to see the "infamous" mud lumps, those diaperic mud lumps that are squeezed upward out of the sediment to form islands in the shallow waters. I enjoyed working in coastal areas and became certified for scuba diving which became a lifelong passion. But I had a big problem, my major research interests were not in chemical oceanography but in theoretical thermodynamics and the geochemical aspects of sediment diagenesis through burial. I started working with two friends in the LSU Geology Department: the clay mineralogist Ray Ferrell and and the carbonate petrologist Clyde Moore who ran the Basin Research Institute. These interactions raised the "reasonable" suspicion of the department geochemist Jeff Hanor that I was trying to weasel into a departmental position. Jeff did not get along with Ray and Clyde and told me the Geology Department wasn't big enough for two aqueous geochemists. Now in my research, I was trying to explain the chemistry of saline subsurface fluids in the Gulf Coast. Lynton Land, a world-famous carbonate petrologist at the University of Texas in Austin, believed the compositions were primarily due to water-rock interactions (principally albitization of feldspars) versus Alden Carpenter, at the USGS, who promoted the idea that their high salinities primarily represented upward-moving fluids derived from the precipitation of the underlying Jurassic-age Louann Salt. I chemically fingerprinted available data on the brines, and it was obvious to me that Alden was correct. I showed the evidence to Clyde who decided to invite Lynton to his 3rd Annual Research Conference of the SEPM Gulf Coast Secton that he was hosting in Baton Rouge in 1982. Lynton submitted a paper on the origin of formation fluids in the Cretaceous-age Edwards Formation of East Texas. Lynton was using fluid compositions from his Ph.D. student Dennis Prezbindowki's dissertation and that data was publically available. I ran it through Alden's model and it fit perfectly. Lynton gave his talk using the Edwards data to push his model without any reference to Alden's model. Then I followed, putting the same data on the screen with a perfect fit to Alden's model. I stopped and looked at Lynton sitting in the room, asking him how he could explain the perfect fit other than Alden's model was correct. He replied "Coincidence!" Richard Reeder, an ex-Berkeley Ph.D. graduate student with me, now at SUNY, was sitting behind Lynton and told me later Lynton was incredibly angry. I had stepped on a big ego and made an enemy for life, an unfortunate pattern in my career. Clyde Moore and I published my results on the origin of Gulf Coast reservoir fluids in the American Association of Petroleum Geologists 1983, starting an academic debate with Lynton Land for several years in the literature and at professional meetings, e.g., reply to Land and Prezbindowski in AAPG in 1984.